Everyone has problems and is looking for solutions to them. Sometimes we are exhausted and overwhelmed by the situation and don't know where to look. I propose a technique for solving them and some examples in which the technique has already worked for me.
Technique: we think of a problem that we consider unsolvable. We can write the problem down in a notebook because that way we can more easily follow the steps to solve it and the emergence of the solution. We can tell ourselves in our minds or in writing everything we want about the problem - that it is difficult, that we don't see the solution, that we are running out, that we are running out of energy, that we are fed up with it. Everything we feel. The idea is to be authentic, to believe everything we tell ourselves. And in the end we say the following with all our heart and conviction - I know I have this problem, I admit that I don't see the solution, that I am tired, that it has exhausted me BUT I AM WILLING TO BELIEVE THAT SOMEWHERE THERE IS A SOLUTION THAT I DON'T SEE. I KNOW THAT A SOLUTION EXISTS FOR SURE AND I CHOOSE TO RELAX AND LET THAT SOLUTION COME TO ME ON ITS OWN. EVEN IF I DON'T SEE IT NOW, I KNOW THAT IT IS AND I AM WAITING FOR IT. I CHOOSE TO RELAX.
The world we live in is a hologram (see the book The Holographic Universe by Talbot) that reflects what we think. When we complain, we attract lack and suffering. When we accept the idea that there are solutions to our problems, even if we don't see them, we open the paths to solutions. We no longer complain about what we don't have but become open to solutions, even if we don't see where those solutions could come from. We remain open and affirm that we are open to solutions and they will come in the form of a thought, a phone call from someone, a meeting with someone, an unexpected amount of money, etc. The idea is to stay open and stop whining. If we want solutions, we have to stop blocking them with whining and wait for them.
And now some problems that I have found solutions to in the last few days.
I have a diary in which I write down what is bothering me, the day I decided to let the solutions come to me and then the solutions.
1. July 9 - I want to order olive oil in Greece and other products, but I only have 40 euros. I have no idea where the remaining 30 that I need to have free shipping will come from. July 11 a customer who bought audio stories from me writes to me that she wants to buy 2 more volumes. She gives me an order for 39 euros.
2. July 14 - I can't stand the heat anymore, I wake up nervous in the morning and I hate the sun outside. I'm terrified of another day of heat. The weather shows some possible rain, but little and uncertain. July 16 - it rained heavily enough to fill all the barrels (about 4000 liters, plus in the pond, much more than the estimated rain), July 17 it rained all night again. Cool and fine. July 18 cloudy and cool.
3. I want 650 RON to place an order for honey and bee products. I only have about 150 lei. Today I receive another order for 250 and I notice that I sold courses for another 200 last month that I receive at the beginning of the month. Soon I will collect all the money.
4. July 15 - we don't have enough drinking water in the well; in the evening my husband informs me that he has already written to the well-digger asking us to deepen the well - all without me telling him anything;
I have others, but I won't bore you anymore. You get the idea.
Kiss you,
Geo

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